Saturday, March 14, 2020

Why are people giving birth to cursed generation?

No one can contradict the fact that parenting is the greatest task!


Every child was born pure and clean but the society and parent plays a vital role to shape their life either positively or negatively! so many factors hamper with the right upbringing such as school,and peer pressure but the first side to look at is the parent because during the period of parenting everything can happen,some parent as they are trying to nurture there children they are stabbing them in the process!

So the question is why are people giving birth to cursed generation?

No doubt when ever children makes their parent angry,some use harsh tongue to express their anger,you silly child! you this and you that, they scold them with unbearable words!some go further to say what ever you did to me i pray  your children  would do worst than you did! which this saying is common among African parents....And as we know parent prayers toward their children is always acceptable..so this is the reason people are giving birth to already "cursed children"

Here is an example,you know Abdulrahman sudais right? He is the imam of masjid-haram in makkah...someone asked him why you? what is the secret behind it? his answers goes like this"My mum was a righteous woman and knew that she shouldn't do du'a against me,so when ever she gets angry with me because i used to be a naughty kid, so when ever she gets embrace and angry even if it's 200 times a day she use to say may Allah make you the imam of Haram!may Allah make you the imam Haram!may Allah make you the imam of Haram!..so fortunately Allah accept this her prayers and Allhmdl he became the imam of Haram! what a righteous mother she was,upon all the anger she manage to utters good word..
so the role parents play in their children's life is terrific!
Dear upcoming parent! I know it would be difficult but let's try as much as possible not to utter bad words against our children if they wrong us! let's join hand and breaks the myth,in order to have righteous generation....

yours Always...
 sarah_idrees

10 comments:

  1. Nice piece!, May Allah Make us good parents in future, Ameen

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  2. Nice one! May Allah make us be among the best Mum's

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  3. I love that Dear! May Allah makes it easy for us

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  4. I love that Dear! May Allah makes it easy for us

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  5. Masha Allah, may Allah grand our parent jannatul fiddaus

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  6. Masha Allah "Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember the only taste of success some people get is to take a bite out of you"

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    1. Thank you! you are the reason behind my achievement! Best father ever!

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